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People who still use typewriters in this day and age are valid pass it on.

Someone at Twitter really mad about my sasusaku fanart lmao. Guys, if you don’t like a ship, just ignore them, or block, whatever, but don’t go and start harassing creators and fans

need to reblog this again considering all the fandom dramas going on

Just a quick reminder for people new and old to fandoms.

You do not owe someone an explaination for shipping something

You do not need to defend your ship

You do not need to prove your ship is ‘healthy’ in order to ship it

You do not need to ship healthy ships

You do not need to ship hetero, gay, or queer ships that satisfy some quota of diversity for the fandom

You do not have to ship at all

And on the flip side:

Do not try to harm others

Do not tell others they need to harm or kill themselves

Do not cross post your hate

Do not forget to tag NSFW items as people browse while on a work network

Do not post your long fics without putting it under a cut. Some people use mobile and this is really hard for them to scroll, or use text to speech

In the end, ship what you want, don’t ship what you don’t want to ship, and be courteous to one another. And as a last piece of advice, don’t focus on your notp. Post your ships instead and build up what you love, not what you hate.

it was a fila sweater. half of them would have it since they were sponsored. if they were given it to wear on the trip, then yeah the reasoning could be that jimin also put one on after coming back to the place they were staying.

Yeah totally possible!

Do we know they were given it to wear on the trip? If they said that I may have missed it. What I definitely did see is Jimin not wearing it all day while Jung Kook wore it, and then the exact opposite later that night. But you’re right! Could be a coincidence. Either way it isn’t like a make-or-break thing. I think they’re a thing for a myriad of other reasons. It’s just one more sus moment to add to many. But if you don’t think it’s true or it stresses you out for some reason to think that Jimin wore JK’s shirt then just like… don’t think it, I guess? Thanks for stopping by! 👍

babe wake up its Christmas eve, you're gonna miss it

reblog if your page is a safe space for ppl who use neopronouns

Fuck off anon

Babe it's totally okay to feel. Never invalidate your thoughts because of some stupid cunts in here.

Wow.

— @atinyspacemarine

“can straight men be romantically and sexually attracted to men?” sure, I’m not a cop

But:

-whatever floats your boat

-we don't sink other peoples ships just because they aren't our ships

this is so real

The monster high collector dolls aren’t hitting as hard as they used to. The Enid doll is ugly and Wednesdays face looks wonky 😭

If you like her that’s ok but I personally hate her.

Monster High x Wednesday: Enid & Wednesday dolls

I have this class at school and among other things we learn about advertising.

The other day, our teacher asked us what present of women's advertisements we think are photoshopped.

One kid goes 60%. Another goes 75%. One said 90%. Some kid even said 99% (!!).

They were all wrong.

The answer is 100%.

Yes you are not reading this wrong.

In a survey they made they found out that 100% of advertisements containing women are photoshopped.

So if you're ever looking at a commercial or a billboard and wishing you could be that pretty, you might already be, and honestly it doesn't matter, regardless, you are beautiful just the way you are.

Spotify be making up genres because what on earth is 'indie poptimism' literally never heard of that before Spotify, but cool.. ? Time to look into it.

Half our most listened to genres are duplicates of one another ?? 🤣 I really don't know if “singer-songwriter pop” “gen z singer-songwriter” and “singer-songwriter” is all that necessary to be different genres, and not sub genres but-

you do you, boo

You aren't "too old."

You aren't "too old" to love pink or pastels.

You aren't "too old" for cute, frilly clothes or kawaii fashion, or punk style, or any kind of style.

You aren't "too old" to wear your hair in pigtails or any hairstyle society has classified as "childish."

You aren't "too old" to enjoy chicken nuggets or chocolate milk or whatever else.

You aren't "too old" to read YA or watch teen dramas or anything.

You aren't "too old" to collect dolls, action figures, etc.

You aren't "too old" to enjoy certain music.

You aren't "too old" to sing pop music as a music artist. (Yes, I've seen a music artist told that by a TikTok troll.)

You aren't "too old" to write about anything. (Recall Olivia Rodrigo being called "immature" at 20 for her Guts album? 🙃)

You aren't "too old" to color your hair an unnatural color.

You aren't "too old" to get or have tattoos.

You aren't "too old" to own or sleep with stuffed animals/plushies.

You aren't "too old" for fandom or shipping, or to write fanfiction, or make fanart or edits.

You aren't "too old" for Tumblr or TikTok.

You aren't "too old" for anything that brings you joy or fulfills you when it is harming *checks notes* LITERALLY NO ONE.

You know what you are "too old" for past, like, age 19? Being a dick to people over harmless things and telling them they're "too old" for it!

The nonsense belief that people are "too old" for these things, that these things are "immature," is ageist, ableist, and a big reason why so many adults are so fucking miserable.

This whole thread makes me happy ❤️

ppl are so annoying “you can’t paint ur bedroom pink you’re an adult” i did not spend my entire life waiting to grow up and control my life to paint my bedroom beige

I parent differently from the norm, and I have been judged repeatedly because of it.

I parent differently from the norm, and I have been judged repeatedly because of it. My Parenting style has been talked about since I became a parent, it is very interesting that my girls are amazing, while the majority of my shit talkers messed their kids up! I feel for their children.

Needless to say, I parent my children in a way that many people don't understand. Throughout my life, I've often been labeled a bad mother. Let me set the record straight: I am an exceptional mother. I am blessed with amazing children whom I choose to parent differently from the norm. I haven't broken my children, (like how horses are broken) as is often the conventional approach, simply because it's easier. I'm referring to fear-based parenting—where commands are issued without explanation, where a child's beliefs are overshadowed by our own, where discussions are absent because a child's understanding is dismissed. If you didn't raise your children in this manner, then my words shouldn't sting. However, I believe many of you are familiar with individuals who subscribe to such parenting practices.

Girls are often conditioned to conform to societal expectations, while boys are pressured to adhere to a predetermined notion of masculinity. Neither are encouraged to embrace their true selves. I've raised my children to think independently and to comprehend that every action carries consequences. For instance, I've explained that while they technically could take that cookie, there are repercussions—such as a timeout or being deprived of further treats. They understand that their decisions have outcomes, rather than facing admonishment or physical punishment. Though I have resorted to spanking in extreme cases, it's never been my default approach. Instead, I've transformed every situation into a learning opportunity, engaging them in conversations as equals. I've validated their emotions and viewpoints, even when they weren't ideal, and provided alternative perspectives. I've fostered an environment of open communication and honesty, discouraging self-deprecation and uplifting them through praise.

As a result, I've raised daughters who possess a strong sense of self-worth, unafraid to voice their opinions. They won't succumb to the first boy who compliments them because they already know their intrinsic beauty. My daughters are resilient because I refused to break their spirits; they're assertive because I've continually nurtured their personal development, recognizing that self-growth is an ongoing journey. While I may still worry about them when it comes to dating—because what mother wouldn't—I take solace in knowing they're equipped to navigate relationships with strength and conviction. I can't help but feel sorry for any young man who underestimates their resolve.