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Hi ... You don’t know me, but I want to say this anyway.
I don’t claim to know what’s going on in your life, but I legitimately believe that you have no reason to hate yourself. From what I’ve observed in your writing and in your blog, you’ve got a lot more empathy towards others than most people do. I think that alone is something to be proud of. You’ve got a big heart, and the people around you recognize that, and are drawn to you because of it. Though they all seem to have their own reasons for doing so, the fact stands that they do want to be around you. You provide them with something in their life that they want and/or need. If they didn’t feel that way, they wouldn’t bother approaching you at all, right?
As for that hatred and anger you feel ... well, they’re natural parts of life. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. We all feel it, and we all deal with it differently. I see it as a sort of give and take process. When someone shows you kindness, you feel compelled to return that kindness, and when someone shows you cruelty, you feel compelled to return that cruelty. Learning to go against that compulsion isn’t easy. Hell, that’s one of the major components of Undertale’s storytelling: it’s the reason most people have such a hard time killing Papyrus on the Genocide route, and the reason it’s so tempting to finish off Flowey at the end of the Neutral route.
But going against that compulsion is what ultimately changes the tide of the game, and I think that applies to real life as well. I know it’s hard to resist scratching that itch to lash back at someone who’s hurt you. But please, please believe me when I say that it’s not something that’s wrong with you; it’s a struggle for everyone. It’s trying to defy human nature, of course it’s not easy, and we don’t fault you one bit for struggling with it. It doesn’t make you a bad person, it just makes you human. Most people don’t even try to combat that urge; it never even occurs to them. The fact that you recognize it and feel remorse for lashing back is leaps and bounds above most people.
I know that what I’m saying here isn’t going to magically change your perspective. I wouldn’t expect it to. I just want you to know that, at least from the perspective of one person, that what you’re going through is normal and I wish you weren’t so hard on yourself for it. Despite what those people tell you, you are still a good person, and the friends that love you are proof of that.
... If you got this far, thank you so much for taking the time to read through this giant wall of text. I hope it helped, at least a little bit.
so many conflicting feelings
so im going home in a couple hours because im not fit to deal with this environment anymore and im just oscillating between blaming myself and blaming everyone else
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HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY!!!!
STAY STRONG GIRLS WE’VE GOT THIS I LOVE YOU DON’T LET ANYONE BRING YOU DOWN YOU ARE STRONG AND YOU CAN DO ANYTHING U SET YOUR MIND TO!!!! NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY OR DO, JUST PICK YOURSELF UP AND PROVE THEM WRONG
This is honestly what I really need rn.
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You're not ugly. Society is.
will you please help me with my fight against cancer? I had stage 4 Laryngeal Cancer, voicebox removed. Now I’m fighting the Lung Cancer. They found 4 cancer spots on my brain, I really need your help with fighting this Cancer in my brain, I appreciate anything❤️
Awww I'm sorry you got 3 types of cancers..my aunt has the same cancer and had her voicebox removed two, I can't help you fight it but just trust the doctors and the process you'll make it through it all ❤️
I wish you the best of luck 🤞 and stay strong 💪
If you see this post, please help for even $3 and most of all please share this so he has a bigger chance. His granddaughter only has him for a family, please help him and her.
I know this totally isn't my place but I worked with a domestic violence group for a while and felt I had to jump in.
I agree with drmaurisles that he is not a nice guy and that you do NOT deserve to be beaten. I can also see that you are very afraid and this fear plays a part in you choosing to stay with him. You are right to fear what he will do when you leave him. Do not dismiss this fear. Use it. Become informed about what community supports you have. Form a safe plan before leaving. Who will be with you when you tell him? Will you tell him in person or is it safer for you to tell him long distance? Are you living with him and will you need a place he does not know about to move to? Do you have any dependents (for example kids) and how do you maximize their safety? Is there a shelter available to you? Is there a psychologist or counsellor whom you trust that you can talk to about this? They may have a better idea about social supports and safe plans.
You are in a very difficult situation with only an option of the lesser of evils. A person who will beat you in public already has no concern about stopping. He will not wake up one morning and decided to stop beating you, to him there is no reason to. You staying with him will not stop the beatings. If nothing changes today then yesterday will be your life. This change will be difficult and dangerous. It will also be the only guaranteed way to change your life. You can minimize the risk to yourself through pre-planning.
This will be difficult because, like all abusers, he uses psychological abuse to make you think that it is your fault, you are responsible (i.e. you deserve it and if you were better he wouldn't do it), that leaving him will be worse than staying with him, that you will always fail, that you are all alone, and that you deserve to be alone. These are LIES. Lies that he tells you to keep you where he wants you, as his punching bag. It does not matter what you do, he will always try to convince you that you did wrong. Do not believe him.
You are not responsible for his actions. You do notdeserve to be abused in any way. Staying with him will be worse than leaving because it will continue until you are dead or you chose to leave him. He will not change if you stay with him.
You are not alone. There is a whole community out there who have been in shoes very similar to yours. There are friends, maybe you haven't met them yet, that will understand the blame and the shame of what has been done to you is his. You are strong. You will succeed more than you fail, especially if you not stop trying. You are scared because you are smart. This is the situation to be scared of. Keep being smart, trust yourself. You know the dangers of your situation better than me.
Please remember that everything he says is designed to keep you with him. You are more beautiful, more brave, more intelligent, more competent, more capable, and stronger than he wants you to believe. Because if you believed that you were as beautiful, brave, intelligent, competent, capable, and as strong as you really were? You would leave his abusive ass in a heartbeat.
what would you do if you we're in an abusive relationship? like i'm terrified because i don't want him to hurt me more and sometimes he's a nice guy but he does it in front of his friends and they laugh and he comes to me all drunk and shit and my friend has seen it and says the safest thing to do would be to stay with him and try not to piss him off again and i can't break up with him because i'm afraid he'll beat me if i do and i don't know if this will be awkward to answer but i'm scared
In my head, this is just unacceptable. Hurt you more? Baby, stop it right there! HE IS NOT A NICE GUY, HE BEATS YOU, how’s that okay? It’s not! Denounce him! Do you have family, sweetie? Ask for their support. You CAN’T keep this relationship, it’s gonna destroy you and you DON’T deserve it. This is inhuman, go fight for your rights as a woman. Justice is out there to help you. Please do it, please don’t stay with that monster. :/
Last summer memories. / Spomienky z posledného leta.
Pozdravujem z Vysokých Tatier 😁👋
For Kian
For Nika
For Sarina
For Mahsa
For Armita
For all of them
And for all who are not born yet
To all the Iranian people out there
I know these are hard times for us
We have to witness all of isl*mic rep*blic's horrendous crimes just to come here and see some brainless regime apologizers cheering on this child killing regime
But there is still hope!
We should keep raising awareness about the crimes of this mullah regime
That's what the regime is afraid of: awareness
That's why you see their joke of a"cyber army" spreading propaganda everywhere
PLEASE KEEP SPEAKING OUT
KEEP SPEAKING OUT ABOUT THE CRUELTY OF THE MORALITY POLCE
KEEP SPEAKING ABOUT THE IMPRISONED INNOCENTS
KEEP SPEAKING ABOUT THE GENOCIDE OF BALOUCH AND KURDISH PEOPLE
Together we can defeat this blood thirsty regime
پیروز باشید
Gunshot
She kept staring at the other presence in the room. She received the same attention back. Tension was high between them, irritated by the uncalled company.
“I asked you to leave,” she said. There was no reply, just two set of eyes looking intently at each other. Eventually losing her calm, she said.
“I’m tired of you being with me all the time. My friends are worried but you never let me visit them. I don’t even feel like myself with you,” she screamed, chest heaving in anger and desperation. But this was needed; she needed to know the damage of being with her.
“Please, please I beg you. Please leave me alone,” she cried when her words were met with silence, yet again. But it smirked at her, those vicious human teeth between the red lips.
Collecting herself together, she walked towards her table and pulled out the pistol she kept for emergency situations.
"I begged you. I still am. You leave me no options," she said as she loaded the pistol and pointed at it. Only to find a similar one towards her. But she didn't falter. Her fingers were ready to pull the trigger any moment, looking for fear in the eyes of her enemy.
She found none.
But she had to do it. In order for her own sanity. She braced herself one more time.
And she shot herself.
I know things are ruff right now, the world plunging into darkness and most of us feel like all we can do is hold on and hope. I just want people to remember, each of us are human and all of us need compassion. If you see someone who looks like they are in a bad place, weather or not you know them well, a simple hello can be enough to remind them their not alone.
Our humanity makes us strong
Yes it is, I'm not ok. I'm going to take tomorrow off from everything. Here, kik everything. I hope you all stay lovely and stay strong! Bye bye my loves! 💕💕
A friend of mine posted this on Facebook and I needed it ALOT! I think we all do! Stay strong!!
I used to always believe if I was struggling there was something wrong...if I didn't get anything done that I failed...but I have come to know that on really bad days if I make it to the end of the day that I have succeeded. And I also have come to know there truly is better days right after bad ones. If you stay in bed....binge your comfort show (mine is Hannibal lol)...eat ice cream... eat too much bread...whatever works for you to get through....you are taking care of you and that is awesome. Stay strong.
i’ve noticed recently that felix of stray kids has been acting sort of down, and i wanna day that i hope he’s okay. i’m not sure if he’s actually sad or anything, nor do i know why, but i want to shed some light on something i think could be affecting it. i’ve noticed that someone was making comments towards him in a very degrading manner in a recent vlive he participated in. first of all, who the fuck gave you the right to target someone like that? i am so sick of seeing people degrade others for having mental illnesses. just because you haven’t experienced it, doesn’t mean it isn’t a real thing. that’s like making fun of someone for having brain cancer and telling them that it’s all made up.
i wanna leave a personal note for felix, or chan if either happen to read this. please, please, please don’t take any of the hate directed towards you to heart. i know that it hurts, but none of it is true. every single member of stray kids, past and present, is talented and very special in his own way, and all true stays know that. a true stay accepts each member and every flaw that comes with him because absolutely no one is perfect. know that if you are ever hurting, you can always turn to stays. we love each and every one of you so much, and hope you all are happy and healthy. take care. 🖤
Dark Cloud...
Depression hurts, man.
Some days I just don’t want to…
Breathe deep and enjoy.
condolences to everyone in this age of polls who has to see their favourite thing thrown in the ring against a wildly more mainstream character/piece of media armed only with a bad picture and worse description. stay strong.
